The first time that I went to Cebu, it was just a short two-day visit. I was not satisfied because the trip was like an overnight stay in Cebu only and then we headed to Bohol. So last week, I headed to Cebu for a 4-day vacation and enjoy the city at a slow pace.
It was a mistake for me that during this four days, I did not go to its outskirts where the beautiful islands are, or as they say, where the paradise is. I stayed in the main city and got easily bored with the scenery. I cannot really relate or enjoy the talks with people there, because they seem so proud of their local roots that they appear arrogant to tourists, especially to those coming from Manila. It was very different from Bohol indeed.
With these four days, I went to visit the ever famous Magellan’s Cross and the churches (Cebu Cathedral and Basilica Minor del Santo Nino), Fort San Pedro, tops, taoist museum and Crown Regency Hotel’s sky adventure (sky walk and edge coaster). I did try eating at the barbecue place, where I enjoyed the most; even better that Crown Regency’s buffet. I did not go to museums as I believe (and even Paulo Coelho) that I will not learn anything from it. It’s best to explore local culture by interacting with them rather than looking into the old photos and relics.
For a traveler who’s dying 
to get out of the hustle and bustle of the city, I suggest to avoid the city of Cebu at all cost. Cebu city is far from a peaceful town or small city because for me, it is even nightmare! I have travelled to different Metropolitan cities and I can say that Cebu is even worse than Manila or Quiapo. What’s even an eyesore are the local women in the constant look for foreign husband and vice versa.
With all due respect, I do not generalize that all foreign tourists go to Cebu to look for Filipina bride but based on my observation, it’s almost like most of them are there looking for wives and girlfriends, and not just for a simple travel leisure. From an outsider’s point of view, this can have a negative implication or that it can give Cebu a negative image. This has given me negative vibes on Cebu, specifically Mandaue City. It’s like the Philippines and Cebu specifically, has become the queen city for Filipina dating or for Filipina girls wanting to marry Westerners. In my opinion, this is just absurd and pathetic.
I have yet to discover the islands of Mactan, Bantayan and Malapascua. I am sure that the next time I will go back to Cebu, I will head straight to these islands. And I almost feel it now that the next time I go there, it will be a different experience. I am excited now with my future trip, so that I could write something nicer about Cebu.
Till we meet again Cebu…
XOXO
